Are you wondering what you and your family need to have in place when you come home from the maternity ward? And how to create a good and safe environment for the new little family member? Some things can wait, and everything doesn't have to be perfect.
When to start cleaning, organizing, and shopping for the baby's arrival is, of course, up to the individual. But many people start by reading up and gathering knowledge. As you gather information, it is understandable if you feel some uncertainty. For example, there seem to be harmful substances in almost everything in the home, from plastics to electronics, plants, and bed mattresses.
Use common sense
We can go a long way by using common sense and acquiring knowledge where needed. Some general tips are to be mindful when purchasing baby items. Newborns sleep a lot, so it might be wise to buy a mattress without chemicals and check the contents of the nursing pillow.
Lock away everything dangerous The home is filled with cleaning products, paint cans, medicines, and tools—things that children should absolutely not get hold of. Consider getting a lockable medicine cabinet or similar. If you can't lock it, you can easily secure a space with a latch at a high height. It will be impossible for small children to reach!
Learning from new parents: Everything doesn't have to be perfect
Many new parents wish they had taken it a bit easier before the delivery. It’s nice to have most things organized, but it can be hard to know in advance what you will need for the baby. Sometimes it's good to let things evolve with parenthood.
How to make siblings feel safe and involved
A new sibling is a big change for both parents and the existing children in the family. But then you can take comfort in the fact that for most people, getting a sibling is something positive. The relationship with a sibling is special. Involvement is an important piece of the puzzle, allowing each child to feel safe and noticed.
How to prepare the child for a new sibling:
Read books about getting a sibling
Talk about what it will be like and answer the child's questions
Respect the child's reactions, whatever they may be
Let the child be involved in your preparations
The 5 best things to get before the baby arrives:
Changing table
Stroller
Car seat
Crib
Clothes
Even though you can change diapers on the floor, it's nice to have a proper changing table. Make sure it’s safe and never leave your baby alone on it. A stroller is needed from the start, and it's good to have accessories like a footmuff and a car seat for safe travel in the car. A crib is preferable, and have the baby's first clothes ready.
Examples of things that can wait until after delivery:
Babysitter
Baby swing
Baby gym
Wait to buy expensive items that you won’t need right away or are unsure if you will need. You don't know what your baby will like.
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